Snapchat Exposed: A 13-Year-Old Girl’s First Day on the App

Within minutes of downloading Snapchat, without searching or interacting, our 13-year-old fictional character, Nevah, was exposed to inappropriate content and language, random adult accounts, and dangerous features. This experiment reveals how quickly algorithms shape a child’s experience and why parental involvement is critical.

Nevah (Haven spelled backwards) is a 13-year-old fictional girl our team created using AI.

She just got a brand new iPhone.

The phone has no search history, no previous data, and no contacts. It had never been used before at the start of this experiment. Nevah’s phone is set up exactly like millions of kids’ phones are today, using default settings for her age.

Nevah is joining the most popular social media, video game, and AI platforms used by kids around the world. Our goal is to show parents what content appears, how quickly it shows up, and how these platforms begin shaping a teenage user’s experience from day one.

Nevah’s First Experience in the Apple App Store

Within seconds of turning on her iPhone for the first time, Nevah went to the Apple App Store and was immediately prompted to download apps like Roblox, YouTube, TikTok, and Snapchat.

Before Nevah even downloaded Snapchat from the App Store, she was shown an article titled “5 Ways to Make the Most Out of Snapchat.” The article encouraged her to:

  • Use filters to alter her appearance
  • Turn on Snap Map to share her real-time location
  • “Get to gossiping” on Snapchat video calls with up to 15 people

All of this was shown to a 13-year-old before she ever created a Snapchat account.

Nevah Downloads Snapchat

Within seconds of joining Snapchat, Nevah was encouraged to add hundreds of friends. Many of the suggested accounts appeared to be adults.

The app even went in and automatically selected seven friends for her.

Then, within minutes, Nevah’s Snapchat feed began showing:

  • Sexual content
  • Videos involving vandalism
  • Content comparing school to jail

Again, we didn’t search for anything. We didn’t like, follow, or interact with content. This is what appeared by default.

Why This Matters for Parents

This experiment exists to give parents an authentic view of what kids are being exposed to online today.

What Nevah experienced wasn’t extreme. It wasn’t rare. It wasn’t the result of Nevah’s “bad choices.”

It was the result of default settings and algorithms on one of the most popular apps in the world.

What Can Parents Do?

Based on what we’ve documented, existing evidence, and the stories we hear while speaking in schools across America, Snapchat is simply not safe for elementary and middle school–aged students.

If your child is on Snapchat and getting them off the app isn’t possible or realistic right now, parental involvement is critical.

We’ve built resources to help parents take practical, informed action.

Start with our free Guide to Snapchat for Parents

If your kids are on Snapchat, we strongly encourage parents to join Haven.

Nevah shows parents what’s actually happening. Haven gives parents step-by-step tutorials to help keep their children as safe as possible on apps like Snapchat.

Inside our Haven Snapchat Module, we cover:

  • What Snapchat’s parental controls can and can’t do
  • A step-by-step video tutorial on setting those controls up correctly
  • The most dangerous parts of Snapchat parents need to understand, including:
    • Snap Map real-time location sharing and how to turn it off
    • My AI, Snapchat’s built-in AI chatbot
    • My Eyes Only private photo vault
    • Snap Scores and Snap Streaks

We built Haven to give overwhelmed parents clarity, confidence, and peace of mind in a digital world that’s changing faster than most families can keep up with.

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TLDR:

Our team created a fictional 13-year-old with a brand new iPhone to see what kids encounter on social media.

Within minutes of first being on the phone:

  • Before even downloading Snapchat, the App Store promoted apps like Roblox, YouTube and TikTok it also pushed articles telling her to use filters that would alter her appearence, share her real-time location, and “Get to gossiping” on Snapchat video calls with up to 15 people
  • Within minutes of joining Snapchat with zero activity, her feed automatically showed sexual content, vandalism videos, and content comparing school to jail.
  • The app auto-selected adult accounts as friend suggestions

Bottom line: This is what algorithms serve kids immediately. Not from bad choices, but from default settings.

Recommendation: Snapchat is simply not safe for elementary and middle school–aged students.. If your child uses it, parental involvement is critical.

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